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| Psychology Today
Do you find yourself picking the wrong guy or gal time after time? That may be more than bad luck. Here are five reasons why you might not be finding the love of your life.

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How Can I Find a Good Man or Woman? 5 reasons why you keep picking the wrong guy or gal. The Science of Mating Take our Romantic Personality Test Find a therapist near me. I received a lot of comments and feedback about two articles that I published last year: Why Women Can't Find a Good Man" and "Why Are Men Frustrated With Dating?" Most of the commentary, beyond venting of frustrations on both sides, was asking for strategies to find a "good" partner. I have partially answered that question in my many articles (see the archives). Nevertheless, some readers report continued trouble and frustration with finding a good partner. Particularly, they tell me about repeatedly meeting the "wrong" kind of person. They date, mingle, and meet but end up with the same type of "losers," "jerks," and "divas." No matter what they try, they seem to end up in the same unsatisfying relationships. From my perspective, there are a number of reasons why this happens. So, if you are stuck in a cycle of bad dating, then read on! One of these problems might just apply to you. 5 Reasons Why People Don't Find Mr. or Ms. Right. 1. Wanting what they cannot have. Some people get addicted to the thrill of the chase. The forbidden fruit. The "playing hard to get." They lust for those people who pay them no attention, are aloof, disinterested, or even mean. Wanting what we cannot have is a common mental quirk that we all possess. Within the social influence research, this is called "Scarcity" (Cialdini, 2009). Essentially, we are all hard-wired to believe things that are difficult to obtain, or rare, are also valuable and desirable. However, this is not always the case. Sometimes the rare and expensive is truly valuable. other times it is just some junk a person put a high price tag on! Some people keep dating the wrong kind of guy or gal because they fall for the scarcity trap. They keep chasing what they cannot have. Sometimes this is an ego thing ("I'm going to show him how good I am!"). Other times, it is a low self-esteem thing ("what do I have to do to get her to love me?"). In either case, however, they mistake this partner's disinterest and scarcity for actual value. The solution: Stop the chase.













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