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At first glance, Black Girl Travel seems to be like any other American international travel club, just one that caters exclusively to black women. But buried toward the bottom of its About Us page is a fuzzy YouTube video that indicates a wider problem. The video is a defense of the company — directed at haters" who have criticized Black Girl Travel for encouraging black women to date men in other countries.

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"The heart of what we do is about empowering African-American women with options," says Fleacé Weaver, founder of Black Girl Travel, in the clip. "I have done a lot of research and talked to a lot of women in this country, and what I'm hearing is: You can't find dates, you can't find mates, you can't find husbands." Weaver, a statuesque black woman flanked by two chic employees on either side, is all long lithe limbs and wavy hair. Her presence, despite the poor video quality, commands the screen. "And I kind of thought about, like, well why is that? And as I started talking to [women] it's like, they're only dating black guys. Don't shoot me!" she exclaims, pressing her hands to her chest, then throwing them out in a shrug. "It's the truth. That's what's happening." She cites her research, 2008 census data that suggests that even if every black man chose to partner with a black woman, there would still be 1.5 million black women left mate-less. "That's why I created BlackGirlTravel.com. To get you to start thinking about dating interracially," Weaver says warmly. "There are a lot of incredible men out there, yes, you know you want a brother. . That's what you want, right? And that's OK. But we know it's just not enough to go around!" Weaver's staff laughs along with her. "What you gotta do is open your mind." Weaver's not alone in her exhortation to black American women. The idea that we should travel abroad — particularly to Europe — to find love has a home in online discussion groups, travel websites, blogs, and Facebook pages, all of which earnestly and enthusiastically encourage us to "swirl," i.e., date non-black men (the term is designed to evoke a half-chocolate, half-vanilla soft-serve). Though they vary in tone — some are celebratory, extolling the joys of finding "Swirling Success in Sweden" while others are bear hard-nosed messages like "The Dating Truth for Black Women: Go to Europe and Don't Look Back" — every site insists that black women in America are better off looking for love in another country.